It’s been over a year since I wrote about Family Vision specifically, so I think I’m due.
But first I’d like to go back to the first keyword in the title that I decided to put on this post, i.e. “Importance”.
Questions Around Importance
A natural place to begin would be to ask “why” family vision is important.
But since this is my blog and I make the rules here, I’m going to “zag” instead of “zigging” and answer a few different questions instead.
I hope that no one thinks I’m acting like a politician when I answer a different question than the one that was asked.
My Dad used to say “You can do whatever you want, but don’t become a politician, because then even your friends will think you’re an a**hole”.
(My son recently reminded me of this, so yes, I have passed it down!)
– For Whom is Family Vision Important?
Making sure there’s a clear family vision isn’t an important consideration for every family.
In fact, I’d bet that most families have never even thought about this at all, and that’s OK.
But I don’t write these blogs for most families. I’m reminded of something my Aunt said to my Mom after she read my book, SHIFT your Family Business. “Oh, that’s a book for rich people”.
Well that isn’t the word that I would’ve used, but she isn’t wrong either. Most of what I write is geared towards “the 1%”.
I like to think that my ideas are just as valid, generally, for all families, but realistically, the higher up the wealth spectrum the family is, the more likely my thoughts will resonate with them.
– When Is Family Vision Important?
Just as family vision is not necessarily important for every family, neither is it important at all times.
Years and even decades can pass during which it never becomes salient. So when is it likely to become important?
Essentially, as soon as more than one generation of adults is involved, I believe that it is high time to think about working on a family vision.
As soon as the wealth that has been created goes from being the wealth of its creator to the wealth of the creator’s family, having a family vision becomes important.
When the wealth creator goes from thinking about “my wealth”, to “our wealth”, the paradigm has shifted.
– Where is Family Vision Important?
So assuming that a family is actually one for whom family vision is important, and that they are now at a point where the wealth is considered to be “family wealth”, where does the vision actually fit into things?
Discussions about family vision usually begin in the context of a family meeting.
If a family fits the profile based on the first two questions (“for whom” and “when”) but still hasn’t begun to have regularly scheduled family meetings, then that’s the most logical place to begin.
When starting out, I always suggest that families identify the smallest logical group of people to convene, usually the parents and their adult children. In-laws and children can be added later.
When I say, “regularly scheduled”, that doesn’t necessarily mean frequent.
Having a regular annual meeting will often suffice, and that’s preferable to having a few ad-hoc meetings over a few months and then not getting together again for three years.
– What is Family Vision Anyway?
Just what goes into a family vision will vary from one family to the next. No two families will go about figuring theirs out the same way, either.
The actual “content” or result of the vision is less important than the process the family goes through to define it.
If the family can answer the question “Where are we all hoping to go together?” I think that they’re well on their way.
Is it a family credo or motto? Yes, possibly. Is it a mission statement? Yeah, maybe that too.
Is it carved in stone? Well, maybe, eventually, but I’d suggest writing it down in pencil first, just in case.
So when’s the next family meeting?
Video version of (5 Things you Need to Know: Family Vision)